High Point Short Stirrup Team For 2008-2009 – Just Sayin’

Ever since the boy was born I’ve been an avid scrapbooker. I’ve preserved hair from the boy’s first hair cut, the girls’ first school project and every single thing they wrote to me. I even have a certificate that says I was  Volunteer of the Year when the boy was in second grade. How’s that for bragging? Okay, maybe I was a little too involved.

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This blog is my online scrapbook. I’m (obviously) a fanatic about documenting everything that goes on in our family. Probably because I don’t have many photos of my own as a child. I also know that my family is not the only one who reads this so you must forgive me if I do some bragging. It’s not hubris or bravado. It’s just that when something good happens, I want to keep it forever and ever. I’m just a proud momma. And it’s what I would do even if no one was here to see it.

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So when our Short Stirrup team wins the coveted number one spot for the year, well, I have to write about  it. After all, these girls worked really hard to get it.

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Ladies and gentlemen, the Top Ten Short Stirrup High Point Riders for the 2008-2009 season.

I know there’s eleven girls here. Two of our girls tied for third place. Not braggin’ just sayin’.

Of the eleven girls here, five are from Oak Crest. How cool is that? Where’s the girl? She’s number eight and dressed for the occasion in her shorts and sweatshirt. But I wasn’t going to argue with her about what she was going to wear.

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Actually only one girl on the team wore a skirt. We’re a little bit more laid-back about these things. You’d think they were tom-boys or something.

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It may look like they aren’t listening. Unfocused – seems a strong word. But when it come to riding, they are unmatched. This year anyway. Who knows how they will do next year.

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That’s why I have to brag about it now. Wait – I’m not bragging. I’m just documenting.

Way to go girls. Way to kick some horsey butt.

It’s All Worth It

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The early mornings, the hours of riding, the mishaps and the danger…it’s all worth it.

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And the ribbons start to pile up. As each class came to a close, the girls would listen with anticipation and each time we hear the Oakcrest team called, we cheered abashedly.

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The girl was done riding and after a tough start, redeemed herself with nothing but blue for the rest of the day. She watched her teammates finish the last class and waited for the results but we all knew…it was in the bag.

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The blues piled up…we all knew.

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They came out on top for the day. That clinched the season for them as well, they were high with victory.

I’m 5 foot 1 and the husband is 5 foot 7. I look at this picture and I think, is the girl the tallest girl on the team? How is that?

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This is really why we have victory, the respect and love they have for Miss Wendy is something to see.

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And the admiration and love for Miss Tina who is notoriously camera shy but consented to a group picture. She’s the ultimate horse whisperer.

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Back home at our farm, Joker was showed some love herself. She was a flawless performer. She was almost as proud of Joker as I was of the girl.

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They are starting to look alike don’t they? The bay coloring, the big brown eyes, the mane and the perky ears.

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And the work wasn’t done either. Trailers had to be unloaded and cleaned. Horses had to be fed and hayed.

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I snapped a few post-meet photos and while the girls and the other equestrian moms were unloading and cleaning up, I went to my van and fell asleep. Hey, I’m just the photographer…me and horse poop don’t mix.

When the girl asked us last year if she could join the team, I was a little wary. I’m not a horse person, neither is the husband. We wondered about the time commitment and the money involved. But this is something the girl has in her blood and her passion for it is wonderful to see. So her parents go along for the ride. And we are proud of her commitment to this…but I know I said that already. It’s just so true. Glad we did it – really.

The Cleo Melt-Down

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Little Madison on Guinness. First Place – Blue Ribbon.

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Little Alexandra on Brave Mouse. First Place – Blue Ribbon.

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Little Morgan on Guinness. First Place – Blue Ribbon.

The Oakcrest team is kicking some horsey butt. And now… the girl’s turn.

Since each farm rides their own horses in the finale, the discussion for the entire month before the meet was “Which horse should I ride?” For the girl, that question has only one answer – Joker, of course.

But Miss Tina had other ideas, after all, she’s the trainer. The decision about which horse the girl would ride changed and changed again. Finally it was settled, the girl would ride Cleo for the first class, Brave Mouse for her second class and Joker (yeah!) for her last class.

The girl told us for days beforehand,
“I don’t like Cleo.”
“She pulls to the center.”
“She follows other horses.”

To which we say, “Everything will be fine.”

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As it turns out, everything was not fine.

As I was snapping away at Morgan getting her ribbon, the girl gets in the ring with Cleo. I immediately see something is wrong and I grab the husband’s arm in a death grip. Cleo is literally going sideways in the ring while the girl is kicking away at her haunches and fighting the reigns. Cloe starts to rear and pull and I think, “She going to get thrown.”

I’m the ultimate optimist.

Miss Tina goes into the ring and grabs the reigns. Miss Wendy brings in Joker who is tacked up with someone else’s tack. The girl gets off of Cloe and gets on Joker with seconds before judging starts. I sigh with relief, but the girl has lost her footing and her mojo. She’s behind the horse – so to speak.

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The girl on Joker with Morgan’s saddle. Pink Ribbon – Fifth Place.

She was disappointed but I have to say, under the circumstances, no one got hurt. Miss Tina believes that Cleo was spooked by the clapping of the throngs of fans (or rather parents). It was the first time poor Cleo has left the farm…it was an experiment gone awry. All in all it could have been worse. The week before, the B team had a horse rear and a horse run away. Animal control was called and they couldn’t find the horse until the next day.

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Cleo was taken outside and put in a trailer right away, not to be ridden again that day. Little Abby was upset, since she was supposed to jump Cleo in her class. She went outside to visit her and came in with tears in her eyes. She reported to Miss Tina that Cleo was sweating in her trailer, to which Miss Tina replied, “She’ll be fine. She’ll survive. And you can tell her she’ll never have to leave the farm again.”

Gees…no wonder why these girls are tough.

Four times that day we see girls get thrown off horses. One of which was our own Little Alexandra.

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She was riding just beautifully,

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And the next thing we knew, she was flying through the air like a canon ball off of Brave’s back. I saw the whole thing in slow motion and there was something unseemly about snapping away at a little girl in danger so I lower my camera and stuck my fist in my mouth. More on that later.

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She was crying, I felt so badly. A minute after Alexandra flies off the horse, Miss Tina literally throws her on Brave’s back, tears and all.

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Talk about getting back on the horse after a fall. It’s not just a cliche, we live it.

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Little Alexandra gets escort off my a multitude of trainers – and her mother. She is going to ride in the next class again,  and on Brave Mouse. These girls are braver than I ever can hope to be in a lifetime.

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I really wanted to get pictures of the girl with Joker in her horsey show get-up since the only time that she rides Joker is when she’s in her poop-filled farm boots and chaps.

I’m going to say it again for the last time, I’m so proud!

The Calm Before The Storm

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After we get the horses warmed and tacked – and only then – do we get dressed. Many of the girl wore braids and oh my goodness, the braids are absolutely adorable.

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Horsey show trivia: Tall boots = hair tucked in. Short boots = garters and braids.

I learned that the first meet.

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The horses get dressed up too. The red bow on the horse’s butt? Too cute. Another horsey show trivia: the girl tell me that this horse kicks and the bow is there as a warning for people to stay away from its back end.

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Some little girl spent a lot of time on this horse’s main.

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This horse was beautiful. I watched it all day. Not a hair out of place, and I barely got a shower.

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The girls started to relax a little bit…had a little fun before the big event.

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They are so cute – did I say that already?

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Ooops sorry about this picture. He really was thrilled to be there.

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They even had time to get out their phones. They were texting their dads and telling them to get out of bed and get to the meet.

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And now…show time. Miss Tina preps the girl one more time.

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I think she’s ready…

Horse Deployment – Military Style

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Last weekend’s Equestrian Finale for the girl was quite an event. Before you read on, I’ll have to put in a warning – there’s a lot of cuteness and if you can’t handle it, better not read any further.

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These girls are some tough cookies. We had to be at the farm at 5:30 am in order to trailer the horses to the farm where the Grand Finale for the season was to occur. The husband and I kept asking ourselves if we were ready to trailer horses, and of course, we didn’t know the first thing about it…or the second thing either.

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But we were there, bright and early to cheer on the little girls. I’ve been on many military deployments and frankly, this reminds me of those early days in the military. Oh dark thirty we called it. Except the husband said that this horse deployment actually left on time, unlike most military deployments I’ve been on.

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There were similarities, big vehicles lumbering slowly down the road in a caravan. Lots of coffee, lots of rain and drizzle, darkness and big combat boots – or equestrian boots.

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We were the first out of seven farms to show up and Miss Tina and Miss Wendy immediately started walking and tacking horses. It was a flurry of activity and everyone knew what they were doing. Everyone except the husband and I. We just watched and were hugely impressed.

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The horses came out of their trailers and the girls were getting them ready to get warmed up and schooled before the meet.

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Miss Wendy is always standing right in the center of galloping horses. She’s fearless and she’s got a lot of confidence in those girls and their horsey skills.

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Just to reminder you, these girls are between the ages of 11 and 13. They were confident, solid, knowledgeable and so mature and serious around the horses. There was no goofing off until the horses were warm and ready to go.

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I wasn’t thrilled to have to get up so early, but I was filled with unabashed pride as I watched the team do their thing.

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Guinness’s tail was braided. We didn’t have to do that in the military.

I have hundred of pictures of the girls on the horses but these early morning pictures are my favorites. It shows the preparation and hard work that goes into an event like this and the only reason they do it is because they love it.

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They love the horses…I’ll give you a preview and say that the result of that day was victory for the Oakcrest Team. But as I go through these photos, I’m not sure that was the only reward that day.

December pp, Dec 21

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It was cold today, we had an ice storm last night and early this morning…

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And I spent the day in the company of…smelly horses…

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At the “Fun Meet”. I’m sure they didn’t mean the moms were having fun. Hey there Joker. You were a good girl today.

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I hang out at the farm so Joker and the girl can do this all day.

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But it was cold…

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When I quit complaining about the cold is when I can sport one of these on my van…

Oakcrest At Merry Mount – A Life Lesson

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The girls had their third equestrian meet last Sunday and the conditions were frankly, brutal. The wind chill factor was 14 degrees which forced us to ride inside, where it was not much warmer. The horses were jumpy with the wind blowing through the roof and several hundred people squeezed into a small barn. There were a few close calls with skittish horses and we had a girl get bucked off. She’s ok. Miss Wendy literally made her get back on a horse.

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The toughness of those little girls makes me so proud. They are horsewomen, through and through. They handled the situation so much better than say, a tired, cold, grumpy mom.

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The girl rode in her second event on Satin, a horse that is not really responsive. She had a tough ride. The horse kept wanting to pull to the center. The girl made a mistake that even someone – like me – who doesn’t know the different between the mane and the tail – could see. She had the horse canter on the wrong lead, and at that point, I thought, “Oh well, maybe she’ll place next time.”

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When the standings were called, it was announced that the girl came in second place. The judge obviously didn’t see the mistake with eight horses in the ring. The selfish mom said “Yiii-haaww”.

The girl and I talked about it later. We talked about how difficult the horse was to manage. A rider is judged on how well she can handle a horse, any horse. It’s all part of the skill set.

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Then the girl said something that was bittersweet. She said, “I didn’t think I deserved it when I heard my name.”

The girl showed so much character. She realized that winning is not everything. It’s how the game is played. She knew she didn’t perform well enough to place. She understood the concept of fairness and sportsmanship and was humble enough to admit it when the win is undeserved. That’s my girl!

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I did my best on these photos but frankly, it was all I could do to keep from freezing to death. I also forgot to borrow Danny’s lens. And did I say I was tired? I thought so.

December Photo Proj, Dec 8

It’s December 8 and I have only posted 4 project photos, so I have a solid C average for this project.

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Here’s one I took today,

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Here’s one I took last Sunday. It was 14 degrees outside, 24 degrees inside. The girls took it much better than I did.

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Here’s one I took last Saturday. Every year we look forward to someone dying at our murder mystery Christmas party. Weird I know.

Now I’m caught up!

Oakcrest At Home

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Now that I have two meets under my belt, I’m a professional equestrian mom. And the husband’s first meet makes him an official barn dad.

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The girl has a quiet competence and rides beautifully all day – especially on Cody. Cody’s an older, gentler lesson horse. But she handles him like a pro. Good boy Cody.

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Then she draws Brave Mouse and was happy. She didn’t draw Joker at all, but she performs wonderfully anyway even though she missed her.

Miss Wendy makes sure the girl’s boots are clean and shiny. She’s wiping off horse poop.

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Then she gets on the phone…

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to talk strategy with Miss Tina. Uh huh, yeah, lets put in Mischief on the fences, yeah, and we’ll Hazel on deck, ok lets do it. Hike!

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It works because Oakcrest wins again. As evidenced by the extremely sophisticated scoring system.

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The strategy includes putting the tiniest girl on the tiniest horse and has them jump the biggest jump. Hazel is the cutest teeny tiny horse. And Alexandra weighs about 20 pounds.

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She can fit under an 18 inch fence.

These girls are so cute…

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Even if they didn’t win the meet, they would have won the cutest equestrian team contest – if there was one that is.

It was a great day but extremely cold. I had to defrost for about 24 hours before I felt my toes again. Thanks again Danny for letting me borrow your lens. You should have seen me change between the two lenses – like a real photographer.

Oakcrest At Red Gate

The equestrian mom is excited for the first ever equestrian meet. Even having to drive an hour and forty minutes to the farm doesn’t deter her. She’s excited! And the girl is excited too!

But when we get there, the weight of the competition starts taking it’s toll. The equestrian mom is fussing over the spots on the breeches and the hair net and talking a mile an hour. The girl gets more and more quiet. And she’s got her game face on.

For those of you who know the girl, know that she’s not emotive (except when she’s fighting with her brother). When she is under stress or pressure, she get even more quiet. We have never done this before, this is for real ribbons, not just the kind they give you for showing up to camp. It’s the big time! It counts now! We have to focus! So the girl says, “Calm down mom”.

Oh, ok.

The girl sets up for her first event with Teammate Kayla and their trainers, Miss Wendy and Miss Becky. Aren’t they cute?

The girl draws Linus for her ride. Miss Wendy checks out the equipment. All set for the kick-off. Or whatever.

It’s a walk/trot event. The girls are judged on walking/trotting. I have no idea what’s going on or what they are looking for so I yell, “Go!, Fight!, Win!. Beat those Red Gaters!” The parent next to me says, “First time to a meet?”

The girl places 6th in the this event. I’m so happy! She placed! In her first event! For the record, ribbons and points are given to the first six places. See? I’m learning.

For the next event, she draws Penny. Now Penny has a reputation for being the slowest horse at the farm. Her description says she’s a little unmotivated, has a slow cantor and needs a crop. Great. The girl is placid, the horse is lazy. Great.

I think the girl’s too calm, too placid, not in the game enough. I go buy her a Coke and I pick a fight with her. “I told you to look up and smile.” “Mom, I know. Just chill ok?” Ooooohhhh, she’s getting mad now. I then give her the Coke and I tell her to drink it. A little bit of caffeine never hurts anyone.

She’s look more relaxed doesn’t she? This event is a walk/trot/canter event. The girls are judged on…well you know.

Walking.

Trotting.

Cantering.

She places 1st in the next event. FIRST! A BLUE RIBBON! On the slowest horse in the farm!

One more event to go…the four fences. I didn’t know what that meant until I count the number of fences.

She jumps four fences in a row, oh I get it now.

She’s riding Knight, and she looks beautiful. I’m so proud, really proud. She places 5th, out of 12 girls in this event. Oakcrest beats the breeches off of the other four farms at the competition. Go Oakcrest Go!

Thank you Danny, my fellow photographer, for lending me your long lens. I saved me from having to run into the ring to get a picture. I don’t think the judges would have liked that.